i believe nurture is definitely the way to see things. a child does not know how to be kind, loving and affectionate from the time they are a baby, it learns from its parents. whereas a child in a hostile enviroment learns to be hateful, cruel and violent. it is the same when children watch violent shows on the television. there are many tests out there, about twins seperated at birth with very different personalities, that prove nurturing is what affects a child.